New favourite song!!

Well, I have told you before, that Ned just ADORES "Baggers" (diggers). Well, the other day I checked something on youtube and I stumbled over an old German song, and Ned just LOOOOVVVVVVVEEEES (!!!!!!!!!!) it. He actually tells me to sing it at times, great.... !!!!! Well, here's the link:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGf3vb17Cy8

His favourite line is: baggerbaggerbaggerbagger baggerbaggerbaggerbagger baggerbaggerbaggerbaggerbaggerloch, fancy that :o)))

I've noticed that so often on this blog, I only write about the challenging moments with Ned and forget about all the wonderful times. And believe me, the fun times definitely outweigh the tantrum times, but I'll put it in J.R.R.Tolkien's words:

"Now it is a strange thing, but things that are good to have and days that are good to spend are soon told about and not much to listen to; while things that are uncomfortable, palpitating and even gruesome, may make a good tale, and take a deal of telling anyway." [The Hobbit, Page 49]

Somehow Ned's tantrums make better stories to tell and are easier to write about, but I shall try my best to show his angel-side a bit more as well (not that you end up thinking we have a little monster who spends most of his time laying on the ground and screaming his head off or in consequence lives his entire live in punishment in his room).

Ned loves his teddy bear "Hermie". He can be sooooo gentle with that little guy, ahm, girl (okay, he can also throw her out of his bed across the room, but I am here to tell the cuty side of him :o) ). The other day I prepared dinner in the kitchen when all of a sudden Hermie's head appeared on the counter top and it moved from side to side, as if telling me: "Isn't there something to eat for me???" Unfortunately there wasn't or he would have easily achieved his purpose.

A couple times a day it is also our duty to give Hermie kisses and cuddles or Ned insists that Hermie sits on one of our laps or has a drink (he even tried to give her a bath once but that wouldn't be so beneficial) .

Ned and Hermie, they are as thick as thieves and she gets kissed, cuddled and loved, despite the fact that her fur isn't as soft and well-groomed as it used to be, neither that her eyes aren't as shine as when she newly arrived at the Wyatts, nor that she stinks like a skunk, because Ned loves sucking her little tail and repeatedly salivated-on little teddy tails do smell pretty bad.

Living with Ned for the last 1 1/2 years definitely left tremendous marks on her, but nonetheless she looks a happier and more content teddy bear. I just hope, that Ned doesn't turn out like Mr. Bean in any other ways then how he treats his beloved teddy bear!!!

Things I discovered

I think, I just have to accept the fact, that I am the mother of a charming, but strong-willed child, or to formulate it in a positive term: a very persistent child. We're still having around one tantrum a day, and if young mister doesn't wanna do something, he just doesn't wanna do it, e.g. walk up some stairs (those couple of stairs took us around 1/2h instead of 1 minute) or if he wants something, he WANTS it, like an apple today. Unfortunately the apple-want coincided with dinner, so we didn't want to give him the apple but rather pasta (which he normally really likes), but no, offspring wanted apple and complained loudly. In consequence he spend the next 20 min in his room screaming his head of while we had our pasta. Then we got him out again to have another go with the pasta, but no way, the only thing offspring wanted was apple, so he ended up in his room again for another 20min or so. Well, after that we got him out again, and he was very cute and cuddly, so he sat on my lap in the kitchen giving and wanting affection when all of a sudden he said one single word again: APPLE!!!! Ben and I just started laughing, it was too comical, and we decided he wasn't strong-willed, but only VERY persistent and single minded. After that one word though, he actually he devoured the pasta (I guess screaming ones head off makes one really hungry), had one or two bites of an apple after that and wasn't interested in that stupid apple no more.

Tantrums make me feel aweful. Sometimes I'm able to stay totally calm and relaxed (like with the apple incident) or I start of calm and relaxed (like with the stairs incident). I just sat down on the stairs and let him rage for a while.... but after some time without getting anywhere and having to get home to make lunch I slowly lost my rather limited amount of patience. And by the time I reached home (and discovered that I'd forgotten my keys inside) I was dissolved in tears. Luckily I had my mobile phone with me and I could call Ben and he knocked off work a bit earlier, but while I sat outside the door, I still had screaming kid in the pram. We'd managed to walk up these particular stairs, I put him in his stroller which he wanted the entire time, but it didn't make him stop screaming, so he was still screaming when I sat outside the house waiting for Ben (actually one neighbour walked down the hill just to check if everything was okay, or if some accident had happened). I was in a rather murderous mood, which made me feel really aweful. I know being enraged myself doesn't help neither me nor Ned, but still, that's what I was feeling. I try to work on staying calm and relaxed, but I guess I'm a bit stubborn myself (oops). Once I look at those happenings once I "cooled" down I can actually have a good laugh and I hope I can learn SOMETHING of it..... I just hope that those tantrums will belong to the past by the time baby arrives.... I don't know if my nerves can handle two screaming little once :o)))

Another thing I've discovered is the importance of backing up pictures and stuff on an external hard drive. I have been rather slack with it, and unfortunately our laptop crashed about a week ago and all pictures of the last two months or so have disappeared into cyber space, bummer!! Ou well, hopefully I will learn here as well :o)))

Another thing we discovered is that Ned is old enough to spend a weekend without us at Hotel Oma and Opa, they were happy, Ned was happy and an angel and WE WERE HAPPY, although we did miss our little trouble maker:o))))

I guess it is time for a new update :o)))

Ned enjoys our new IKEA bookshelf while it was still on the floor

Well, I have been a bit of a slacker lately, I do admit, and although I'm "just" a housewife presently, somehow time just slips away.

3 weeks ago, we have moved back into our old flat from 3 years previously, which has been a tremendous blessing. The flat has 3 room, a spacious kitchen, a little bathroom and a store room in the basement. Ned just LOVES running around, obviously enjoying the space to be able to run around. And although it still looks a bit like a mess and there are still boxes standing around, it slowly starts to look like a home again. (For those of you who knew our flat before: It isn't as colorful anymore, and all the walls are rather boringly white). We also do have a phone now and wireless with is really cool..... compared with the ship our connection is soooooooooooo fast (although it isn't the fastest there is, but I don't complain:o) ), I almost feel like a normal German citizen:o))).

Unfortunately, to be a normal German citizen you also have to do quite a bit of a thing we call "Burokratiekrieg" in German... which means, you have to run from A to B to get yourself registered and stuff like that. I hate it!!!! Unfortunately I not only hate it, but dread it. Seriously, I AM afraid of it, and that fear sometime immobilizes me. It is such a silly fear to have, I know, but for me just to pick up the phone and call one of those offices to get informations or whatever is almost a nightmare. Well, Ben made me do it (bless him), and although I overcame my fear this time, I still hate it:o))), but I'm also "proud" of myself for fighting this silly fear.

Spring has moved on as well. Now everything is sooooooo green and pretty. My friend Heike once said: "Looking at the grass don't you wish you were a cow at times???" and I heartily agree. The grass looks sooo vivid green and fresh, you just want to bit into it (although I'm sure the taste isn't the best). And not only the grass, there are so many pretty flowers around and the blossoms of apple trees and cherry trees... ahhhhh.... I love spring!!!

Ned continues to be a little cuty and charmer. Our landladies living on top of us (they are around 60 and 90) just fell in love with him, although they also can hear the not so nice side of him. Well, one tantrum a day presently. Yay!!! I just LOVE being yelled and screamed at, especially in the supermarket. Somehow you would think that he realizes that it doesn't help him whatsoever, but no, here we go, almost day after day a major meltdown which always end up with him being send to his room until he's okay again. The advantage of it is, that afterwards he is always very cute and loves giving kisses:o)))

Thanks to Emirate airlines and frequent flyer points Ned's also now the proud owner of a "bobby car". I don't know if that's a German thing, but most kids have a bobby car at some point of their toddler-hood. He loves it, especially he loves unscrewing the little nut and bold with holds the steering wheel on the bobby car, no idea how he always manages that. And thanks to Emirates again, we also have a DUPLO zoo which included a Mama giraffe.... which obviously made him VERY happy!!!



His favorite word is still BAGGER (digger) closely followed by MAMA, which can be quite tiring at times, if you get called a thousand times a day. It's also rather cute when he says: "Oh no" or "uppa", when something goes wrong.... I guess i say those words quite a bit:o)))

Spring, spring, spring....

... I just LOVE it!!! I feel like a flower myself and just suck up the beautiful sunshine, which isn't stinking hot but just soooo wonderfully nice. The air smells of new beginnings (if you ignore the tar smell from the freshly re-done road) and new possibilities and every day the buds peak out a tiny bit more, you can literally watch everything grow. And now that we have bikes it is even nicer. Every day I go for a bike ride with Ned and in the evening with both my boys again. I don't feel so pregnant on the bike, and my butt got used to the bike saddle, so it isn't so painful no more:o))) although my legs still feel like jelly and going up a hill I can forget, but still, it is sooooooooooo pleasant to ride along in God's beautiful creation.

And this weekend we'll be moving, AGAIN!!!!! But hopefully it'll be the last time for a couple of months. So once again I have to pack our multiplied STUFF in boxes and bags, to finally unpack them for good... at least for now!!! My memory has never been very good, but now it is even worse (baby eats brain??). I don't have a clue what we actually have and where it might be.... our possessions are spread around in different boxes and different places. I should have written down what I stored in which box and what place, but, like so often before in my life, I'm only smarter afterwards. And I do try to be organized but somehow it always backfires on me (e.g. I forget where I put the lists or I just quickly add something to this box and promise myself to write it down later, which never happens).... ou well, maybe next time I'll do a better job, but to be honest, I don't even want to THINK about packing again:o)))

Well, Ben has finally written our long over-due prayer letter, so it should be send out in the next couple days. If you'd like to get it, just let us know:o)))

Well, I'll go outside now and soak up the sunshine:o))))))))

ou my butt!

Sometimes it amazes me how spontaneous we are. Yesterday morning we didn't even think about it and in the afternoon we were the proud owners of 2 "new" second hand bikes plus kid's seat plus kid's helmet. Off course we took the first opportunity to take them for a little ride. Well, the last time I sat on a bike was in Scotland almost one year ago (for Ben it had been even longer) and I wasn't pregnant back then and just a tiny wee bit fitter:o))). BUT it is great to do something again, although my butt quite hurts after only 1/2h riding. Ned loves it, or should I better say: Ned LOVES(!!!) it???? He loves riding on the back (who wouldn't, you can enjoy the ride without any work) and he LOVES his new bike helmet. In fact he loves it so much, that we aren't allowed to take it off (seems to be a habit of his.... shoes... sunnies.... bike helmet)

He doesn't even take it off for eating:o))

Eating is a other funny little thing with him. Obviously he enjoys eating and he even enjoys eating LOTS of vegetable: corn, pickles, tomatoes, cucumber, capsicum (we are VERY grateful for this!!!). Well, now the funny thing is that he's so extraordinarily random, compared with him I am not random at all (and honestly, I am rather random). Well, every day for lunch I make him a lunch plate with said vegetables and cheese and cold cuts. One day he devours the corn and doesn't care a bit for the capsicum, the next he's hot for pickles, but tomatoes?? eagh!! The following day again he can't get enough of tomatoes but corn....??? What do you want me to do with that?? So every day is kind of a lottery: What will it be today???

P.S. I made those buns myself... they are SOOOO yummy!!!

Talking about funny habits, he has another rather random habit: he loves taking off socks. I know kids love doing that in general, but he just loves taking off OUR socks, so if you're not careful, you might go barefoot:o))))

Well, Ben just managed to take off the bike helmet without offspring complaining, so now we can put him to bed, yay.... night night!

Fridge....

... man, can you believe it???? We got offered a fridge and a freezer for free... without even asking!! YAY!!!!!!! How can you put gratefulness in words??? For me it is IMPOSSIBLE, but my heart is overflowing with it.... to GOD first of all, but also to many kind people around us!!! Thank you!

I love spring!!!!

And flowers... and trying to take nice close ups of them :o)))